The resulting feedback

Originally uploaded by Izzy Mo

Jazak Allah khairn to everyone who posted here and on the flickr site. Everyone overwhelmingly agreed that the inside should have color. So I have painted the inside the same black as the side stripes of the purse. I know, I know, it looks brown but I swear I used Mars Black acrylic paint. I guess the gold painted flowers created the look of a dark chocolate brown. So, the purse looks like the color scheme of Neopolitan ice cream. Yum. 

Plus, I’m following JD’s advice by placing some black fabric at the bottom of the box. I can’t really cover the whole inside with fabric because the hinges would pull it apart.

Thank you so much. This pic will be posted on KellyIzdihar.com :-)

Qatari Sadaqa

Salaam alaikum,

Hijab tip to Musulmana for sending me this link

Amir visits to observe impact of his generosity

by John Pope, The Times-Picayune

Monday April 28, 2008, 7:22 PM

The amir of Qatar, the ruler of the oil-rich country that has pumped $100 million into hurricane-recovery projects, is visiting New Orleans and the Mississippi Gulf Coast today and Wednesday to see how and where the money has been spent.

During a busy two-day schedule, Sheikh Hamad bin Khalifa Al-Thani will tour schools, a hospital and health centers. He will see new houses that Qatar has paid for, and he will hear from recipients of his country’s aid in three broad categories: education, health care and housing.

For instance:

– Children’s Hospital received $5.4 million, the largest single gift in the hospital’s history, to care for uninsured children and to repair and re-equip two clinics.

– Habitat for Humanity was given $22 million to build 293 homes in Louisiana, Mississippi and Alabama.

– Xavier University received $12.5 million for a new building for its College of Pharmacy.

– Nearly $20 million was divided among Louisiana State University, Loyola University, Tulane University and Xavier University for scholarship. 

Now that’s more like it.  Shiny, happy Muslims doing good.  :-)

I wish I had found this group sooner

And guess what?  This young man was honored by the Mahabba Awards for Event of the Year.

CAIRO — Provoked by the re-printing of a cartoon lampooning Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) by Danish newspapers, Danish young man Anders Botter has stood up and be counted, taking his case of defending the other’s religious sensibilities to the popular social website Facebook to say “Sorry Muhammad.”

“As an average Danish citizen, my primary goal with this Facebook group is to say that ‘I’m sorry’ to all those ordinary Muslims around the world, who have been offended by the cartoons of prophet Muhammed (sic),” Botter said in a live dialogue on IslamOnline.net.

Botter, 27, says he launched “Undskyld Muhammed” or sorry Muhammad in English to spark a constructive debate about limits of freedom of expression in a secular and democratic Denmark.

“I’m 100% support the freedom of speech – but I also respect the religious views and feelings of other people,” he said.

So, this is just a friendly reminder to those Muslims who think that all non-Muslims are out to get us.  Let’s judge folks one at a time, not in big lumps.  :-)  The Danes can’t be all that bad.  After all, they make those yummy butter cookies

 

 

Sincerity

Salaam alaikum

Bismillah ir Rahman ir Raheem

Lately, because of the recent talk within the local community about Muslims and activism, I’ve been thinking a lot about sincerity.  It’s the constant job of a believer to make sure that her intentions are correct.  What am I doing or saying this for, the people or Allah?  But recently, I had a run in with a commenter that revealed some new insights about sincerity.

A month ago, “Susan,” contacted me and asked me some questions about Islam, the oppression of Muslim women and terrorism.  You know, the two usual subjects–religious violence and the subjugation of women.  While the comment seemed angry and laced with some sarcasm, I decided to let it stay.  I also left a comment receommending Thomas Cleary’s translation of the Qur’an plus links to various websites and organizations that are addressing the problems she listed. 

She returned about month later, still not happy with her results.  She mentioned the same issues and felt that the oppression of women can not be helped because men have all the power.  She’s waiting for the Lord to fix it (her words, not mine).  So today, I emailed her.  A few weeks ago, I got the chance to meet an awesome Australian Muslim woman activist named Ayesha.  She’s the principal of a school for Muslim girls (who’s staff is 1/3 non-Muslim, by the way) and she pursuing a doctorate degree.  “Susan” also lives in Australia.  So if they are willing and if time and distance are in sync, I thought they could meet.   I emailed “Susan” and let her know that I would get Ayesha’s contact information and insha’Allah, she can work with Muslim women in resolving these issues. 

Yes, I admit, I gambled.  Part of me wanted to me if she would be excited to work with active, intelligent Muslim women or if this was just negative spam hanging in my comments box.  After coming home from my tajweed classes, there was another comment and no response to my email (and as of yet, I still haven’t received a response) about…again, Taliban.  What was sorta sad and humorous was that she said the same thing, “Muslims don’t condemn terrorism.”  But there I was, condemning it in my comments box plus sending her links to Islam for Today which has this huge webpage of, what else?  Condemnations!  And she must have missed those darling American Muslims Against Terrorism buttons that grace the blogs of people like JD, Yursil and Tariq Nelson

And there was the posting of hadith and the latest madness from some Taliban psycho, and we ALL know the dangers of people interpreting Islam through Digital Jurisprudence.  Subhan’Allah, I can read a book on nuclear physics but that doesn’t make me a physicist.  :-)  But this time, the comment was left by “Susan” and it ended with the name “Jenny.”  Big red flag.  What’s up with using two different names?  I have to admit, this makes me think that she’s less than sincere.  Only God knows.  While I don’t really have any concrete blog rules, I do feel like that you should at least use one name.  So in the rare times in my blogging history, I had to remove her comments.  I can’t take behavior like that seriously. 

:::By the by, do you see that no matter how much you condemn terrorism, it’s never enough?  If only Bin Laden had a blog so they could all talk to him instead of the rest of us:::

There are people who go on and on about the plight of Muslim women but when offered a chance to interact with us, suddenly it’s like hearing crickets.  That’s when you’ll see if feminist rhetoric becomes positive action or no action at all.  If you are passionate, I mean really passionate about something, whatever that something is, you work and you fight for it.  You have to put up or shut up.

But while I’m all in Susan or Jenny’s business trying to figure out if she’s sincere, I need to be more concerned about my sincerity.  What am I doing to make things better?  What can I do that goes beyond words on a blog?  How can I translate my ideas into positive change.  Well, I know my tajweed classes are taught at a small school for Muslim women called House of Muslimahs.  I think supporting Muslim women to become educated in Islam is the best way to gain taqwa and to decipher between what is Islam and what is Hislam.  My friend and cool Muslim visual artist Janet Aly used her artwork sales to raise money for the Mukhtar Mai Women Welfare Organization.  I know many of you sisters and brothers out there have given tons of money to charitable organizations and have hosted many interfaith events with people of other faiths.

So, I hope and pray that with the remaining time in my life, I can use my time for God’s good work–whatever form that may take. 

So Susan or Jenny, I’m still here.  I will get that information about the sister in Australia and if you want it, you can have it.  Let’s take our passions and direct them to something noble.  And please forgive any part of this entry that may have seem snarky.  After all, I’m American and we can be like that sometimes. 

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Note:  11:27 pm. She cleared up the Susan-Jenny issue.  She uses both names together and seperately.  But I have yet to receive a response to my email.  If you’re still interested, Susan Jenny try the Muslim Women’s League and KARAMAH

Izzy Mo Couture

Originally uploaded by Izzy Mo

Salaam alaikum,

Yeaaaaah.  I went there.  I must be channeling Kimora Lee Simmons or somethin’!  It looks like a purse but it’s actually another decorative box.  Pricing and measurements will come soon but I need some feedback.  I want your opinion on whether or not I should paint the inside of the box.  I have a flickr set which shows all different angles of this latest product. 

But a short description:  A decorative box shaped like a purse.  Colored with pink, black and white stripes with black diamonds and gold dots.  Accented with black and gold flowers, along with gold studs and latch.  Does not come with lock for security. 

Please feedback on the flickr site.  :-)

http://www.flickr.com/photos/98756806@N00/sets/72157604757228651/

I’m feeling better

Salaam alaikum and alhamdulillah!

I’m feeling much better.  That was a nasty cold.  I had to get tons of rest and plenty of Vitamin C and Zinc.  But I’m feeling better.  I hope I will be able to blog about something revelant again! 

Thanks for your advice and many apologies for not answering all the comments.  :-)

Reason #730 why BET is the worst network on the planet

Salaam alaikum,

When will they take BET off the air?  Black Entertainment Television?  I see why the Boondocks cartoon did an episode on how BET really means Black Evil Television. 

Last month viewers of the animated TV series The Boondocks learned that BET really stands for “Black Evil Television”, calculated to stunt the spirits and curtail the intellectual growth of black youth. Satire like the Boondocks depiction of BET only works when it contains big and obvious chunks of the widely known truth. Unfortunately, commercial black radio is not much better.

Please note that this episode of The Boondocks was shown in Canada with a huge disclaimer.  Yes, Aaron Gruder went there.  I saw it on youtube.  It ain’t for the fainthearted.  :-)

But it highlights a huge problem. BET is nothing but a collective of Step-N-Fetch It comedy shows and raunchy videos.

MTV is the second worse network.  It’s only semi-redeeming shows are Pimp My Ride and Cribs but the title is enough to make you gag and swtich the channel. 

Oh, no!  Pimp My Ride is on MTV Arabia!  It’s called Dale’ Sayaratak !

Down, down the lizard hole!

Ick

I’m sick!  Waaaa! 

This upy-downy weather with the tons of pollen is making a lot of folks miserable.  Alhamdulillah, at least I can veg out and sleep all day. 

But I feel so icky.  :-(

Dyson Keeps It Real

Just remember Muslims, Barack Obama is likeable, but he’s just a man and he’s just a politician. 

Please listen to this. 

Obama is not Salahuddin, nor is he Abu Jahl

Muslims in Business

A small warning.  Many of the ideas that I’m talking about in this entry will make you say, “Uh, duuuh!”  But sometimes that common sense is not so common.  Within the last two years, I have watched a few Muslim owned business do two things.  Survive by the skin of their teeth or crash and burn.  Why?  There’s lot of reasons.  Muslim owned businesses are not unique from any other but what follows is a listing of issues that often plague some of our institutions.  I’m not speaking from the perspective of an expert, just someone who is learning from the mistakes of others.

1)      No business plan.  Have you ever had someone come to you and tell you that they had a great idea for a business?  They have all the ideas in their head and they just know that with the right amount of money and time, it will be a huge success.  At this moment, you will have to be the killjoy and ask them if they have a business plan.  “Business plan.  I don’t work like that.   I don’t need a business plan.” BIG MISTAKE.  There are few business experts that would suggest that you start a new business without one. The only people exempt from this requirement are financial geniuses.  For us average ignorant peasants, we must take our abstract ideas and try to apply numbers and words to them.  As you may remember, doing the business plan for the gallery was quite annoying.  But I’m glad I did it because I discovered that such a business venture would be too costly.  At least, it’s not feasible now.  It may be a reality 5 or 10 years from now.  But it’s all too easy to go online and find free business templates.  The hardest part will be the financial section of your plan, such as your 3 to 5 year projections of costs and sales.  If you have any financial savvy friends, beg them for help.  But the business plan is crucial.  It will help you narrow down your target audience, figure out the demographics of your clients and gauge your potential for success. 

2)      Having no plan at all.  I used to work for this non-profit organization.  I’ll never forget when the director told me, “We don’t have a plan, really.  We tend to put the cart before the horse.”  Whaaaa?  Well, that explained why everything so messy and chaotic.  It explained why I was so stressed out and why certain tasks were never completed.  It explained why I was called to do large, complicated tasks at the very last minute.  “Well, how much time do you need?”  “Gee, you could have told me last week when you knew you need this done.  Not 30 minutes before I get off from work.” They seemed to be comfortable with this insanity while I was drowning and steadily looking for another job.  Why couldn’t they had sat down and arranged a schedule of daily duties?  It’s like they came to work and spent the morning trying to figure what they would do for that day.  But issue leads to my third point.

3)      No professionalism.  Unfortunately, some Muslim owned businesses are notorious for this. Then again, I and many of my friends and relatives worked for city government so unprofessional behavior does not discriminate.  Like that non-profit organization I mentioned above, there were so many unprofessional things going on that it made my head spin.  The assistant’s six year old son running around the office.  The mixing of grant funds for personal use like parties for friends of the organization (big, fat, NO-NO.  It’s illegal and haram).  An employee sleeping, no, SNORING at the desk.  A secretary not knowing how to load labels into the printer or taking two hours just to put together a decent letter.  Phone messages left unreturned.  Marketing materials looking all hooked up or like my sister says, “Ooh, that looks like a hot mess!”  Management showing up for important meetings 30 to 60 minutes late.  Dissing visitors from organization’s that have given them grants.  Worst all, not paying people on time.  People, do you know what it feels like to have your paycheck bounce and having to argue with your boss over payment?  I was placed in a position where I hadn’t been paid in a month!  That’s right.  A MONTH.  I was actually considered unprofessional and irrational for not rolling over and letting them walk over me.  It was the first time I walked off of a job.  I hope it’s the last.  I did get paid, two months later, and   they accused me of not caring about the well being about the organization.  Nice.  If only they cared about me paying my bills or buying groceries.  And yet, despite all this, they wanted to be taken seriously.  If you care about being successful, you have to walk, talk and look like it.  You can’t run things like a home business.  And maybe I shouldn’t say that because some home businesses are run quite professionally.  You know that Hadith about paying your worker before the sweat of his brow dries?  These are the words of our Messenger (alayhi salatu wa salaam) and ethical business principles are enshrined in our religion.  Read an English translation of the Mejelle, the Hanafi book of business ethics.  I took a wonderful Sunnipath class on Islam and financial matters.  Deal with people with equity, fairness and honesty.  Whether you are Muslim employee or employer, your behavior and character is dawah.  If people see Muslims having jacked up business skills or poor professionalism, it shines a terrible light on our religion.  And remember that these ethics apply across the board to Muslims and non-Muslims.  Don’t have one standard for this group and another standard for the different group. It stinks of hypocrisy.

4)      Keeping it in the family.  This may get me some flack.  But if you are going to hire a relative, please make sure that you are hiring him/her because s/he is qualified.  There’s a lot of fitna with hiring relatives—at least within an American setting.  It is not the best environment to be in when you’re not related to anyone.  Suddenly, you become the reason why the organization isn’t doing well. It’s not because the son is placed in a position in which he has no experience.  It certainly has nothing to do with the fact that relatives come and go as they please while non-relatives are expected to be the epitome of professionalism.  @@  Hire people who know what they are doing.  You’re not doing your business or your relative any good.  Because one day, your son or daughter will have enter into this unforgiving job market and Mommy and Daddy won’t be there to overlook your screw-ups. 

5)      Grandiose expectations.  If you’re just starting off, please don’t assume that your business will take off like a rocket.  One brother told me that the only thing Muslims will buy, indefinitely, is halal meat.  Well, tell that the owners of halal restaurants that have closed down because few Muslims were patronizing them.  The Muslim American market is the fickle thing and you better steel your stomach in order to handle it.  It’s still being developed but business experts say that this market will boom within the next few years.  It’s largely untapped but corporations will soon get over their fear of marketing to Muslims when they see the potential gains that they’re losing.  Whether it’s hijabs, halal meat, Islamic books or art, you’ll have some difficulties.  So if Muslims don’t jump up and down at your latest project, don’t take it personally.  That’s just business and consumers are fussy.  And you MUST be in it for the long haul.  One brother contacted about a great business plan and he was really enthusiastic.  So was I until I asked him the killer question, “How much debt have you accumulated?”  The business had been around for few months and the debt was roughly $15,000.  I said, “Look.  The debt needs to be taken care of before anything else.”  He was spending money that wasn’t there in the hopes that his ideas would generate huge revenues.  In that same year, he declared bankruptcy.  There’s something to be said for starting off small and testing the waters to see if your idea is even feasible.  You may think it’s the best thing since Coke but others may turn their nose up for all sorts of reasons.  This brings me to my next point. 

6)      Debt!  Please, try to avoid debt.  Of course, there’s almost no point in me talking about interest because Muslims seem to be quite divided on the issue.  We already know what the Qur’an says on the matter. I know of some businesses that aren’t using interest and they’re doing okay.  Of course, there are issues but doesn’t everything have issues?  At least they don’t have the $100,000 sword of Damocles waiting to cut their necks. 

7)      Annoying potential investors.  I love how some people pray for rich Muslims to invest in their enterprises.  Then, they don’t offer said rich Muslims a business plan.  THEN, they actually get upset when rich Muslims refuse to invest.  “What about fisabilillah?”  I love this phrase but I hate how some of us use it.  We use it to guilt trip others into lowering their prices.  We shame them and try to make wealthy Muslims feel bad for not giving enough when some of them give until their wallet screams “uncle.”  Potential investors have every right to know what you will be doing with their money.  Talking about your plans mean nothing.  If you want the money bad enough, do the research.  Put together that business plan.  Show a slick PowerPoint presentation to prove that you mean business.  Give numbers and back up your information with studies and if you can, focus groups.  Stop thinking that people should give you cash just ‘cuz.  “Muslims should help each other.”  Well, help your rich brother or sister by giving them more than some convulated speech about how your business is the best thing since slice bread. 

8)       Fisbillilah discount.  Our beloved Brother Baba Ali covered this topic very well.  How can our institutions and businesses survive if we are not willing to pay the fair price?  I try my best to stay away from the bartering and guilt talk when it comes to my art.  I will offer discounts but don’t ask me for them.  I will donate paintings to charity but I will give on my own terms. Don’t  try to make me feel bad like one sister.  “This costs too much.”  It didn’t cost too much for everybody else.  This item cost less than the many DVDs she owes or the clothes she has in her closet.  I notice that when it comes to things like art and writing, everyone wants something for free or at a huge discount.  One organization wanted to use 10 of my paintings to decorate for a fundraising event.  So I put together a contract staying that any damages to my work will be paid by the organization, so will the shipping and handling.  Plus, the organization had to pay to use them.  After all, it’s a whole bunch of paintings.  After that, I got no response.  The words contract and fees are a great way to determine how serious a client is.  Your product and services are important and should be treated as such.  You wouldn’t ask a non-Muslim to sell you their product for less.  Why do that to your brother and sisters in Islam? 

There’s so many more I can add but I’ll stop here.  Insha’Allah, this American umma will raise its standards and lay down a foundation of strong business informed by true Islamic principles.  Ameen. 

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