ISRA Conference 2006
May 30, 2006 at 7:53 am (The Umma)
Salaam alaikum,
It’s so good to get around to local conferences and to support various organizations. Here’s a little information on ISRA. ISRA, or the Islamic Studies & Research Association, is an organization dedicated to spiritual revival of Islam. Basically, they’re striving to bring back tasawuuf, something sorely need in our umma to rise above the defensive angry rhetoric of victimization. What was interesting was the beginning of the conference with a 20 minute session of dhikr. You can’t help but feel your heart soften and your eyes began to water as you hear this soft, repetitive dhikr extolling the praises of Allah.
But because I was vending, I was placed in the back with the kids and the talking so I could only pick up on some of the lectures. Ustadha Zaynab gave an awesome talk on the excellent standard of the Prophet (alayhi salatu wa salaam). And it was cool that the conference was held in the Global Mall, a mall dedicated to South Asian culture. There are all these cool stores that sell Hindi films, halal Chinese food, Indian wedding dresses and a movie theatre all about Bollywood. I took some pictures of all the designs I saw got ideas for some South Asian influenced artwork. Can’t help it, y’all. The art of
South Asia is sooooooo cool.
I gleaned two important themes from this conference; pro-activism and tolerance. "Proactivism" is when we get up off of our proverbial duff and start doing something about the injustices that we see in the world. Another sister gave a masha’Allah talk about how we’ve become complacent in our current condition. It is easy to get caught up in the day to day life of work, school, and kids but we all need to find time to do something for our communities. She also reminded all of us that we don’t have to rich or influential in order to do something proactive and effective. One example was a Muslim man who created a small organization to provide loans to small business and it has become the model for small businesses start ups around the world. One man. There was another example of a place where a group of Muslims feed the poor and help the mentality disabled and it is currently one of the few systems of welfare in Pakistan. Even something as simple as giving charity to Islamic Relief, which is now dealing with the tragedy of the Indonesian earthquake, can be very helpful.
Tolerance as a virtue is necessary. Unfortunately, sometimes people think that tolerance means acceptance of something that they view as wrong. The speakers made the point that while there are Muslims with full Sunnah beards, praying 5 times a day, fasting and fulfilling the fard and Sunnah, some of these same Muslims kill—often times they kill other Muslims. So since none of us can see what’s inside the heart, or what a person’s intention may be, it’s better to judge their character rather than their dress or the “appearance” of piety. I think we all, at one time of another, ran into someone who dressed the part but didn’t act the part. We’re all at different stations in terms of our faith and our knowledge. They also spoke of the culture of takfir and Muslims going around declaring other Muslims apostates. There are things that I don’t agree with that some Muslims are doing but in a time when Muslims need to be band together, we are tearing ourselves apart faster than any American think tank or government funded “Islamic” organization.
But I only have one issue at these conferences—the children and their parents’ unwillingness to discipline them. I know that it's the nature of children to run around and play but…when your kid is screaming his head off (and he’s 8 years old so he should know better.) Or when your daughter is getting an attitude because I won’t let her play with my artwork. Or when you see your child acting up and you do nothing, my patience is very thin with that kind of nonsense. I will tell them, “Don’t touch. No, you can’t do that. Yes, I will get your mother…or your father…or the conference security. No, you can play drums on my boxes.” If there is a room where the kids are supposed to play, then they should be there or sitting quietly next to the parents while people are trying to hear the speaker. I guess coming from the Catholic Church has given me a high standard because you did not talk while the priest talked. If you had a question, it better wait until after mass. If you acted up, everyone would give you that stern look like “How dare you act up in the house of the Lord.” You could hear a pin drop…literally. I tested it one day and it was clear as a bell.
It’s gotten so bad that some conferences refuse to allow children. That’s unfortunate because they need knowledge as much as we do so maybe we need to come up with some projects that keep them busy but also teach them about the deen. Letting them run around and potentially break something (which I will make you pay for) is not working. It’s not so much the children, because kids will be kids. It's parents who think that not setting up boundaries are good things. Or that saying yes to everything is good when it’s only spoiling them and teaching them that they are entitled to something without really working for it. And just to show you how these traits are inherited, the mother of one of these kids put her frothy Starbucks coffee smack dab in the middle of my table. “Ah, sister!?” One night, someone spilled water on my art. The mercy of God is vast. It wasn’t tea or soda! And I'm the weird one for asking her to remove it. @@
Anyhoo, I did very well. I sold this baby! And now I gotta start making some other stuff. I've got some plans for other projects but we all know how that goes. Trying to be a successful artist with this current economy is going to be tricky.










